Holly's Transgendered Transsexual Crossdressers Thought for the Day

Holly's Transgendered Thought For The Day

Holly is a moderator for Laura's Playground's Chat Room. Holly considers herself to be a clown. Indeed her humour brings smiles to many faces and chases away the blues for many. Holly has a serious side too and she shows it beautifully here in her Transgendered Transsexual Crossdresser Thoughts for the Day. Stop by and say Hello to Holly you'll find her in the chat room most nights pondering her next thought. In case you're wondering Holly is an upbeat MTF Transsexual.

2 Dreams!
I have 2 dreams.
1. To be debt free in 4 years.
2. To find my Soul mate.

Have Faith!
Have Faith that all things will turn
out as they are meant to be!

Peace!
You can't find peace in the world around you.
You have to find it in your own heart!

Life!
Life moves pretty fast.
If you don't stop and look around, you could miss it!!!

Always Remember This!
A positive attitude
may not solve
All your
Problems!!!
But it will annoy
Enough people
to make it
worth the effort!!!

The Genders!
We know the Genders as being Male and Female.
However is there more or are the two known genders
becoming more confused all the time?
Some Ladies dressing and acting more like men all the time and some men acting and dressing like ladies.
Or is there more than two genders? I tend to study people
and behavers and I am more convinced that there are truely more than two genders!

The Best!
To be the best of the best means you make mistakes,
learn from them and move on !!

The Past!
If you live in the past,
You'll never be able to live in the present!!

Better Your Self!
If you live to better self everday,
You will exceed your goals!

One Day at a time!
If you take one day at a time,
and let tomorrow's problems stay tomorrow's problems
instead of today's.
You'll be alot happier!

Excuse Me!!
Ever bump into something, then tip your hat and say excuse me. A door jam or something like that?
It's good for a laugh and people Will think you're nuts
and whats better than that? Life at it's finest!! LOL

Acting like Children!!
And the Lord said unto them:
Hey! don't make me come down there!!!!!

This tickled my funny bone because it is so true these
days. Just like a mother warning her misbehaving children.
"don't make me come down there"

Soul Mates!
I come across this story on a TV show and I had to pass it on because it is just so romantic.

once upon a time, everyone had four legs and four arms.
One day the gods sent down a bolt of lighting and split everyone in two. Ever sence then, everyone has searched
for the other half of themselves, known as our soul mate.

Some people are lucky enough to find their soul mate
but some are not so lucky but what a great romantic thought that is.

Just a die hard Romantic!
I always have been a very romantic person, even thought I have had few occassions to be my romantic self. I love the romantic parts of movies, it melts me every time. It kills me when a romance bits the dust. Candle light dinners, roses, bubble baths for two. It's all good!
After all these years I still have it in me and I'm pleased about the fact that it hasn't died. Despite the Fact I'm very out of practice. Well any way do something romantic for your partner tonight and keep the romance alive!

Fall is here!
Fall is here, even though you would never know it.
well okay in some area's it looks more like winter
in some of the northern states and province's. A winter storm is moving through up there and down here in southern Ontario and some states it's 85+ degrees. What wild weather! It's acting like me lol. "Scary and predictable".
Anyway back to fall! I love fall, the turning leaves and cooler Temps (hmmmmmm wonder where the cooler temps are?).
A new season, a new start!

Justice!
Justice, Don't get in it's way!
It'll run you over and not even care!
It's a blind ruthless machine that'll
eat you up and spit you out.
Justice is for the rich not the poor!

Mistakes!
Making mistakes is only human!
It's one of the ways we learn.
You shouldn't feel bad if you make a mistake as long as you learn from it.
Some people think it's a crime to make a mistake
but don't let them bother you.
Smile and say have a good day! That will fix them. lol

Life!
Look life in in the face and
live it like you would like to.
not the way someone else would have you live it.

Positive Thinking!
Positive thinking is the only way to get ahead in life.
Positive = good
Negitive = bad
So if you say "I can't do that". you are inviting negativity in to your life and will never get ahead in life.
Where as if you say "I can do this " and keep saying that to your self, you are not inviting negativity into you life and it can't take hold as easy. Positive thinking toward learning will help hold off negitivity as well.

Learning!
Learning is a life long process.
He or she who continues to learn throughout life
Will have the upper hand!

To Be Happy!
Laugh at your self at least once a day.
It's like that apple a day thing. LOL

Helping People !
Helping people is never more rewarding
than when it serves your own self interest!
Sad but true!

I refuse!
I have been thinking about how i could avoid using so much gasoline in my every day life. I refuse to pay the day light robbers (oil companies) so much money. I have decided to buy a motor bike so on the good days i can laugh at the oil companies and not pay as much of my pay to
the day light robbers. Even though bike insurance is more,
I would rather pay them alittle more than the oil companies. So April to end of October I will rob the day light robbers by not lining their pockets. I hope a lot more people will do the same and send a big message.

History!
Those who do not know History are doomed to repeat the mistakes of the past!
How true, it would seem that that lesson still has not been learned. I hear kids saying (and I was one of them)
"why do we have to learn about history, it is in past".
Bush and his gang are a prime example.

Balance!
Without balance the world could not exist without it.
A balance between good and evil, male and female,big and small etc.
We are all born with a choice. Good or evil.

Modern Day Things!
Could you get by without cars and hydro?
What if it ever happened? What if fuel and hydro was just too expensive for most people. Well no dought we would all be in better shape. The peddle bike would be very popular
again. Well hang on folks because we maybe right around the corner from that. Maybe we should start saving hydro
by doing a few more candle light dinners and doing a few more things by candle light. Next time you need to go to the store for one or two items, maybe you could grab the back pack and grab the bike.

Inner Peace! Part 1
Lots of people are full of conflict and confustion. Some
are depressed as well. All are looking for answers.
I have discovered that you have to find inner peace before
you will ever be happy. It's the same with loneliness.
If you can't find inner peace then you come be with anyone and still be lonely. Life is not fair and we don't always come into this world the way we would like. If you don't find inner peace with your self this will always be a
seemingly big problem you're not able to over come.

Inner peace. Part 2
In Order to transend the limitations of
this world, you need to:
Stop willing
Stop desiring
Stop hating

Too Fast Paced!!
It seems to me the world is just too fast paced for the good of us all! Do you agree?? I would rather live in a much slower paced world. It was once said that some people would sell their souls to slow down life. Well i wouldn't go that far but the thought is right!

Treat Others.
Treat others like you would like to be treated your self!!
By the looks of it not too many people would like to be treated very well at all. Thank you to all the people who still act good and help others . We are a dieing breed!

Chain Reaction
Have you ever thought about how many peoples lives you effect by your actions. It's like a big chain reaction.
I.E. If there is an accident and you slow way down to "rubber neck", you will effect hundreds of peoples lives. Some maybe late to an important appointment or miss
meeting someone and so on. Take time to think about how you could effect other people by your actions.

The more of a hurry!
The more of a hurry you are in the farther behind you get!
How true this is! I have experenced this many times and now I just don't rush anymore. This world is too high paced as it is and I am not dancing to that tune anymore!
Have a wonderful day!

When push comes to shove!
When push comes to shove not enough of us shove back (so to speak). The saying turn the other cheek, I think has
gone too far. If more people fought back against injustice
we would all be better off!
As the turkeys would say, "Have a gobble of a great day".

Three Kinds
There are three kinds of people.
Those who make things happen!
Those who watch things happen!
Those who wonder what happened?

I am one who makes things happen, with not always good results.
Which one are you?

Change!!
Why is Change or even the thought of change so hard for some people? Is it just human nature? Perhaps that is why some things go extinct!

The Young.
The older I get the less I understand the younger people.
It's the thing I thought would never happen to me. When I
was young I said to my self I will understand the younger people but I guess it's a generation thing. It seems The younger people don't understand us either! Just as I don't understand the some of the thinking of older people.
So the cycle goes on, but maybe that is the way it is suppose to be!
Have a great day!

Energy!
In these hot times we should all try to conserve energy were we can ! With record high energy use because of the
heat and humidity the power supply is under strain.
So please shut off lights if you don't need them and anything else that takes power you aren't using.
Also if you can, aviod working out side between 1pm and
4pm and drink lots of liquids.
Have safe day!

Well, Another half year is gone
Ever wonder where time goes. It seems as you get older
time goes quicker. If you're having fun or not. When I was
younger, time just seem to go so slow. Now that I'm 38
time flys. Infact some days I need more time. I inquire about where I can get more time? But no one seems to have time in stock (not even to sell lol ). I would hate to think how fast it will fly once I'm old, like say 55 or 60
lol. Mind you I'm only 12 years away from the young old foogies club. Wow lets not even go there!!! Any way my
question is, Where does the time go? And how can I get some more added to my days or at least slow it down ?

There is an old chiness saying ( some say curse ) that
goes, " May you live in interesting times".
Well I'd say we do live in interesting times! The corperate
greet , crime , the weather , Ship wrecks and plane crashes and nabour against nabour.
Very few people will go to the aid of other people because
they just don't care or they are afraid of getting sued.
Yes, we do indeed live in interesting times.

Ever notice, what goes around comes around?
It's true! What goes around comes around!
If you wrong someone or do someting good for someone or something, it will come back to you at some point in your life. Of couse the good rewards are easy to ignore but the bad stuff we all act like, "well why me? what did I do"?
The old saying " treat others as you want to be treated your self", is a good way to live your life. Maybe if everyone kept that in mind no one would have to lock their doors anymore.

Ever notice how all the talking in the world gets no where
till the pen is put to paper. It could be signatures or a new law or a story line or what ever. We so often complain about different stuff or enter in a verbel contract without anything on paper. They say that people are only as good as their word and sometimes that's not to good. How ever put it on paper and you have something that is binding, even if it is a relative. So put it on paper and save your self a lot of problems because the pen is mightier than even the human memory is.
Have great day and a better one tomorrow.

Wind, Rain, Snow, Hail, Thunder and Lighting.
We have no control, we just hope that the worst that mother
nature has to hand out doesn't hit us. Some people chase
storms and some hide from them and some people sit and watch them. Watching the power of nature can be like
a ride on a roller coaster. It can be thrilling and scarey
at the same time. It must be respected because if you get in the way, you will be in trouble. So ponder at the power
of nature but respect it, Please.

Ever noticed how just one smile can spread? it's a lot like a virus, just one person with a smile and before you know it more people are smiling. Same with laughter all it takes is one person and it spreads like wild fire. so be carefull or you may catch it next!!! Remember they do say laughter is the best medicine.

Ever have days where you swear you're the bug getting splatted by the windshields of life. No matter what way you turn , SPLATT !!! . On the other hand there are those days you're the windshield just going down lifes highways with no worries . Life can be sweet at times.

Have you ever thought about this? I know I have!
I remember when I was a kid time went by so slow but as the years went by time seemed to go faster and faster. Just seems like yesterday that i got out of high school.
that was 20 years ago ,WOW! AS the song goes "Oh how the years go by"! IT's kind of sad in a way. So try not to take things for granted because they will be gone before you know it.

For many years people have said the moon has romantic powers. Do you believe ? Alot of things in this world are the same way , all you have to do is just believe. The power of the mind is great but so many of us are unable to leap beyound the believable. Small children do it all the time, but somewhere alone the way we start to dought and lose the ability to make the leap beyound logic or the normal. Oh yes the moon does have romantic powers , all you have to do is just believe. Next time the moon is out take a walk and see what happens and remember you have to keep your mind open to the possibilites.

As the song goes "I hope you get a chance to live like you were dying" What a great song and I believe it is sung by Vince Gill. Have you thought about what things you would do or places you would go ? We are so busy with our lives that I think we become robots. We sometimes forget to live our lives as we are living our lives ! I not to long ago
got out of trucking because my life was slipping away and i was doing nothing I enjoyed (Well and I was totaly burnt out after 17 years of trucking ). I have thought about it alot and i am now living my life as if I were dying. I 've quit sweating the small stuff ,and doing the stuff i enjoy when i am still young enough to enjoy them . Money no longer rules my life. Yes I still have responsabities and bills to pay but I have also unloaded alot of stuff so I can live like I was dying ! So I hope you get a chance to live like you were Dying !

A speaker started his seminar by holding up a $20.00 bill.
in the room of 200 , he asked , "who would like this $20 bill ?" Hands started going up. He said , " i am going to
give this $20 to one of you but first , let me do this.
He proceeded to crumple up the $20 dollar bill.
he then asked , "Who still wants it?" Still hands were up in the air.
Well he replied , "What if i do this?" In addition he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe.
He picked it up , now crumpled and dirty. "Now who still wants it"? Still they went into the air.
My friends , we have all learned a very valuable lesson. no matter what I did to the money , you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value.
It was still worth $20.
Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way.
We feel as though we are worthless. but no matter what has
happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value.
Dirty or clean, crumpled or finely creased, you are still priceless to those who DO LOVE you.
The worth of our lives comes not in what we do or whom we know, but by WHO WE ARE.
"You are SPECIAL, don't ever forget it"
Count your blessings not your problems

Simply said, it means that if you can silence your thoughts and desires and learn to hear your inner voice and understand what it is telling you, then you will truly know the right path you need to take in life